I firmly believe in small gestures: pay for their coffee, hold the door for strangers, over tip, smile or try to be kind even when you donβt feel like it, pay compliments, chase the kidβs runaway ball down the sidewalk and throw it back to him, try to be larger than you areβ particularly when itβs difficult. People do notice, people appreciate. I appreciate it when itβs done to (for) me. Small gestures can be an effort, or actually go against our grain (Iβm not a big one for paying complimentsβ¦), but the irony is that almost every time you make them, you feel better about yourself. For a moment life suddenly feels lighterβ¦.
If something scares you, repeat it, find it.. put yourself in that situation again. If you avoid it, it will develop into a fear. If you face it, you will become indestructible.
A healthy relationship is one where two independent people just make a deal that they will help make the other person be the best version of themselves.
Does it bother anyone else that there are parts of your life you don’t remember? You have done and said things that you don’t even know about anymore. That means you don’t even have the right perception of yourself because you don’t even fully know who you are. However, something that you’ve forgotten about could be a prominent memory in somebody else’s mind. It trips me out.